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Dear Post Man:

I think my boyfriend is trying to sabotage my diet. I keep trying to lose weight but he insists on always going out for huge meals or cooking way too much food for us and it’s never healthy stuff. I‘ve tried talking to him about it but he says I need to relax. Any suggestions?

Yes. Just say NO. When he brings out the lasagne, go and microwave a Lean Cuisine. When you go out for the huge meal, order healthy. But most importantly, tell him to knock it off. Make it very clear that you aren’t going to eat what he is eating, and if you need to make separate meals, so be it. If he can’t meet you halfway, then draw the line. If you live together it will be tough. But hold your ground, and go for it. And make very, very sure that you are not using him as an excuse...

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Ronda said:

Erik had yet to arrive at FR.OG, so I ordered a drink while I waited at the bar. A really nice guy was sitting next to me, so we started talking. I was a little self-conscious talking to him because, after all, I was on a blind date, but it's normal to start talking to the person next to you at the bar, especially if you're both alone.

When Erik walked in, I didn't know what to say, so I let him walk past me, figuring I'd let the hostess make the formal introduction. When she brought him over, we started up conversation immediately. Erik had an easygoing...

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