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September 28, 2004

energetics - master the power of transformation Energetics is about realizing, accessing and manifesting our potentials through awareness to energy.

Often we go through our life feeling we are being tugged along, caught in the grip of a large force. Sometimes we resign ourself to this perception telling ourself that what happens is our fate, our destiny. We give ourselves over into the belief that we have little or no control over this force. It is happening to us. We are the its victims. continued...


energetic ~ language We have biological preSet structure to how our mind works and potentially to specific types of language usage. To some degree words or collections of sounds, vibrations, frequencies can be viewed as thought forms which come into existance within a specific structure. When we 'hear' these combinations of 'sound/intent' energy packages we may hear a complex construction which alters or shifts us internally. continued...


the art of surrender Surrender: To cease trying to retain or control and agree to yield. To devote oneself entirely to 'something' without restraint, reservation or resistance.

We begin the process of identity construction at or before birth - perhaps as early as the first sonogram when physical characteristics of gender become visible and our first description is attached. We are 'male or female'. This description is the product of judgment by persons external to ourselves, our parents, doctors, etc,. Before that first moment, before that first description, we are pure potential, undescribed, unshaped. There are no boundaries, no limits to how we manifest. continued...


hair and scalp tugging As an erotic, sensual practice -- hair and scalp tugging are quite popular. For some people there is a desire for a leisurely massage, for others the hunger for a sharp, eye watering tug. Nearly everyone practices some form of hair and scalp tugging from in-depth spa like shampoo and conditioning treatments to Trichotillomania (plucking hair out by its roots). We create all kinds of stories around why we enjoy scalp and hair stimulation, everything from basic hygiene to experiences of emotional release. We spend thousands of dollars and months of our lives on our hair and scalps yet we seldom take a deeper look to see what might be happening in this sensory paradise. continued...


intimacy Intimacy is defined as a close personal relationship marked by deep affection and love, frequently characterized by depth of knowledge and attention.

Intimacy is something we long for. To be cherished and held, understood and accepted by those we care about the most is at the center of whether we experience our life as meaningful and joyous. Yet intimacy is often quite difficult to achieve. As much as we long for it, being truly intimate with another human being also represents an exposure to danger. In order to achieve the sense of intimacy we so deeply desire we must open ourselves. We must surrender our defenses, the barriers and walls we have so carefully built within ourselves over our lifetime. continued...


BTW: My sonic address is still difficult for me to access (networking problems) if you would like to reach me via email then please use THIS email address until I get the problem solved (more routers or something or something)

steeibtrfl@aol.com

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Mallory

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