The biblical Abigail had a tense relationship with her husband, but she practiced grace and wisdom, and transformed her situation.
As a mentor, counselor and minister's wife, I often hear desperately hurting women say: "You just don't understand. Things are not like they were back in your day." "You don't know the things we have to go through—single parenting, abusive relationships, substance-abusing partners, men who won't or can't take financial, emotional or spiritual leadership and responsibility for their families."
"Does the Bible even speak to our pain in any realistic terms?" They ask.