Love

Vows, weddings, Modern Love and more.

Vows, weddings, Modern Love and more.

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    Patrick McDonnell and Jhanaë Bonnick, who both worked in theater, were married March 19 at the New York Theater Workshop.
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    Vows

    When Broadway Went Dark, Two Strangers Found Love

    Jhanaë Bonnick and Patrick McDonnell, who both worked in theater, connected on a dating app just before the pandemic began. They grew closer virtually with the help of “36 Questions.”

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    Under a new law approved by Governor Kathy Hochul, New York residents over the age of 18 can apply for a one-day designation that will allow them to perform marriage ceremonies in the state of New York.
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    Couples Welcome New York’s One-Day Officiant Law

    The new law, in effect in New York on March 28, was 16 years in the making. California, Massachusetts, Vermont and Rhode Island also allow individuals to become officiants for a day.

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Mini-Vows

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    Ronald Corning, left, and Luis Correa.
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    A Chance Encounter Unites Two Strangers From Different Worlds

    Luis Correa and Ronald Corning met by accident and, after discussing their 20-year age difference, found themselves inseparable.

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    A Week Before She Moved, They Matched on a Dating App

    Bethany Ryan and Andrew Jones attended the same preschool and later the same parties as teenagers, but it would take nearly 30 years for them to officially meet.

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    Ray Quintero, left, and Peter Walters.
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    Before the Proposal, a Swarm of Bees Harshed Their Buzz

    Peter Walters planned to propose to Ray Quintero at a picnic on Fire Island, but en route Mr. Quintero spotted a swarm of bees ahead, and bolted.

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    After the Nude Spa, They Knew Their Relationship Had Shifted

    Simon Halliday and Michelle Bryant met a decade ago on a photo shoot in London. Their relationship gradually transformed from professional to friendly to more.

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    After One Date, She Canceled Another With Someone Else

    Growing up, Allie Mitchell and Kyle Carlock were often in the same place at the same time, but it took until August 2021 for them to actually meet.

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Modern Love

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    Tiny Love Stories: ‘I Missed My Children, but I Needed My Mom’

    Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.

     

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    Seeking a Lover, Not a Nurse

    Disability shouldn’t make someone undesirable or impractical as a romantic partner.

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    Tiny Love Stories: ‘Crying in the Driveway’

    Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.

     

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    I Had to Stop Asking Why

    When my aunt died by suicide at 39, I blamed myself. Strange as it sounds, I needed David Schwimmer to help me heal.

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    Tiny Love Stories: ‘If Our Lives Were Novels’

    Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.

     

Vows

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    On March 14, Robert Hall and Amy Cheng were married in the middle of a 20-day cruise, during a stop on South Georgia and the South Sandwich Islands, before fellow passengers and crew members.
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    Art Was an Easy Topic. Defining Their Relationship Was Not.

    When Robert Hall and Amy Cheng, who bonded over Chinese art, first started dating, only Mr. Hall was aware of the change in their relationship status. Months later, Ms. Cheng finally caught on.

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    Kristy Graziano, left, and Caitlin Reichel, both professional acrobats, were married Feb. 16 at Paradise Cove in Orlando, Fla. They were set up in 2019 by a mutual friend and fellow acrobat, Joshua Johnson.
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    When Two Acrobats Fall Head Over Heels — for Each Other

    Caitlin Reichel and Kristy Graziano met at a holiday party in Orlando, Fla., in 2016, but it would take three more years to become a couple.

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    Yasar Sakman, left, and Ilson Goncalves were married March 15 on the beach at 73rd Street in Miami Beach.
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    For a Restaurateur, the Secret Desire for Romance Was Finally Sated

    Ilson Goncalves, who runs a popular Brazilian restaurant in New Jersey, never thought he would have a meaningful relationship — until he met Yasar Sakman on a summer vacation in Turkey.

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    Grace Fooden, a fashion and beauty consultant, and Michael Correy, who retired from AT&T, met through a dating app five years ago. They were married March 1 at the Avalon Hotel in Palm Springs, Calif.
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    Three Dates, and Then a Commitment

    Grace Fooden and Michael Correy met on Bumble and quickly bonded over similar family backgrounds and a Phish cover band.

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    Khalid Alherani and Nora Achmaoui rode in on horses for their Feb. 22 wedding ceremony at Bab Al Shams Desert Resort in Dubai, United Arab Emirates.
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    In Dubai, a Wedding Steeped in Palestinian and Moroccan Culture

    Nora Achmaoui and Khalid Alherani met on Instagram. One month later, they started a TikTok account that now has 1.3 million followers.

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Field Notes

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    Dot Goldberger and Simone Budzyn had their wedding on Oct. 8 in Chesterfield, N.J. Instead of traditional wedding parties, they surrounded themselves (literally) with a “Pump Up Party.”
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    Making Their Weddings an All-Gender Affair

    Some couples are forgoing certain traditions — like groomsmen and bridesmaids — in favor of more inclusivity. As one person planning a wedding said: “That’s just being a good host.”

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    Brittanie Dreghorn and Peter English had a carbon neutral wedding last October in Australia’s Mornington Peninsula. Sustainable weddings have become increasingly popular as couples prioritize environmentally friendly options for their weddings.
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    How to Have a Sustainable Wedding

    Wedding planners and sustainability experts weighed in on how to consume mindfully while planning the wedding of your dreams.

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    Repurposing heirloom jewelry into modern pieces that can be worn as engagement or wedding jewels has become a popular way for couples to infuse tradition into a modern celebration.
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    Give Your Heirloom Jewelry a Modern Makeover

    Couples looking to add a personal touch to their weddings are reimagining jewels passed down through generations and recasting them into new creations.

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    Some polyamorous couples have adopted the Celtic practice of handfasting, which allows many hands to be bound together to signify the binding of several lives, as a symbolic commitment ceremony.
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    A Handfasting Ceremony For Two … or Three (or More)

    The Celtic ritual has become a popular commitment ceremony for some polyamorous couples.

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    A raffle at Mikaela Woods and Benjamin Blake’s stag and doe party on New Year’s Eve in Hamilton, Ontario. The grand prize was one week at their condo in Mexico and $500 in flight credit.
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    Engagement Parties With a Cover Charge

    “Stag and does” are a largely rural Ontario tradition that help engaged couples raise money for their nuptials — and give neighbors a good reason to party.

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Unhitched

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    To Fix a Broken Marriage, an Experiment With Polyamory

    After 10 years together, a Bay Area couple opened their relationship. But contrasting sexual needs led to a permanent split.

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    After a Painful Split, a Functioning Family

    Rebecca and Drew Kuntz say they have had a healthier relationship since their five-year marriage ended.

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    They Grew Apart, Then Became Close Again

    Trent and Denise Montagu never stopped caring for each other after their divorce. “I didn’t ever stop loving Trent,” she said “I stopped wanting to be in marriage with him, which is different.”

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    A Former Culinary Couple Now Thrives as a Blended Family

    For Gale Gand and Rick Tramonto, both chefs, their passion for food always came first. After their divorce, they’ve learned to prioritize family.

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    Challenged to Sustain Their Lifestyle

    Therapy and fancy vacations couldn’t remove the strain on this couple’s marriage, which was brought about by ongoing financial problems.

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Self-Care

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    How to Meditate When You Can’t Sit Still

    Closing your eyes and focusing on breathing can be hard for those who are easily distracted. But it is possible.

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    Feeling Dismissed? How to Spot ‘Medical Gaslighting’ and What to Do About It.

    Experts share tips on advocating for yourself in a health care setting.

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    Can’t Talk, I’m Busy Being Hot

    A social media movement inspired by the rapper Megan Thee Stallion strikes back at the gatekeepers of beauty.

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    After more than a decade in business, the powdered supplement company Athletic Greens is becoming a household name.
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    You Can’t Outrun Athletic Greens

    In the oversaturated world of wellness, the company has forced itself to the front with prolific podcast ads and a network of influencers.

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    The Worst Foods and Drinks for Your Teeth

    When assessing how likely a given meal, snack or drink is to harm your dental health, there are two main things to consider, experts say.

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